I'm fortunate, recoil doesn't trouble me, up to a point. 30.06 , 300 Win Mag, 375 H&H I enjoy shooting, even with attendant recoil. Circumstances determine the degree to which recoil is evident. At the range it's part of every shot of the multiple. When shooting game recoil never registers but, of course, much fewer shots comparatively.
But I know my recoil limits. I have had a few shots with a double rifle in 470NE and nope, don't want a rifle in that cal. Interestingly a bolt rifle, Rigby IIRC, in 416 Rigby was a pussycat to shoot.
Good point you make about quality triggers. Gotta have them to attain the higher leves of competent shooting, especially at the longer ranges.
I shoud say too, none of my rifles have brakes or suppressors. No attempt to be macho I merely like keping things as simple as possible. The fewer things to think about the better, to me.
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