Greetings @raspy,
First things first don't beat yourself up on your handloading to date. I tried some fairly hot loads early on as well. As far as the brass from your hot loads I would let the primer pockets tell you if they are fit for use. If a new primer seats with some resistance then they should be OK. There is an awful lot to learn and some of the stuff you will see on line and on Utube is unhelpful or downright dangerous. The first item to learn is that looking at primers is worthless for estimating pressure. Many on the Forum will disagree with that but there are just too many variables for reliable results. A shiny ejector mark indicates way too much pressure and the lack of one does not indicate safe pressure either. The Hodgdons data for the 7mm-08 is pretty good and loads I have chronographed are close to predicted once barrel length and powder charge have been allowed for. The need to change CBTO for different batches of the same projectile is well known. I think that your decision to retreat back to the book max or lower loads is wise. You might wish to consider dropping back to a lighter projectile if you want to increase velocity, That 150 grain Hornady ELDX looks like a good match for the 7mm-08 and I might even try them in my 7mm SAUM when they become available again. Finally the 7mm-08 does not require endlsee testing to get a decent load, Pick one from the loads you have tried and go with that for the present. You can still experiment but it is March tomorrow and you need loads for the next few months,
Regards Grandpamac.
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