I think it is the way you present yourself. First and foremost is the way you write. No slang, bang or bullshit. Good spelling and punctuation.
You also seem to have a level head and open to suggestions (Not like a ADHD kid let loose in a lolly shop as JS was).
People quite enjoy helping out the likes of yourself where they can
Walking around with your hand out looking for what the world owes you is not a good character builder
I think your on the right track. All the best
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