I looked after a lot of those dudes - some so old their tattoos had faded and melted and couldn't be see for what they were any more. Many were war vets and they were there because they couldn't look after themselves any more .......... and 'home' couldn't deal with them anymore - or didn't want them.
They were almost all disabled in some way, some couldn't speak nor feed themselves - we looked after them as though they were 'babies' - yet they all had massive dignity, and that just shone through them.
The day would start with getting them up in the morning, you got them out of bed, cleaned up the shit (if there was), put them in a dressing gown and in their wheelchair and then rushed them down to the shitter where they shat and pissed on the floor - then we hosed it off. It sounds crude and horrible, but there was a bunch of us all doing the same thing and there was real humour in it - no one got embarrassed.
Then we'd collect urine samples and do the diabetes test, then shower them which was a two man job - then give them breakfast and settle them down in the 'sun room' - they all had their favourite places in there and that had to be adhered too or it caused friction.
Then you'd go back and make the beds and get some breakfast yourself.
On Sunday's we'd 'dress 'em up' in case they got visitors and they got two biscuits with their cup of tea. I don't remember any of them getting visitors .......... and that affected me for years - it was like they'd been thrown away.
It was one of the most physically demanding jobs I've ever had - I was fourteen and had to manhandle blokes twice my size and weight ...... and sometimed I got it wrong. We were dressed in 'whites' and our shoes (white) had a hard 'clicketty clack' sole. One morning I was swinging my man out of bed to get him in his wheelchair and he started 'whaling' on me with his fists and elbows. By the time I got him in the chair I had a bleeding nose and the beginning of a black eye ........... I'd been standing on his toes and he showed me his displeasure in the only way he could.
Over the three years I was there several of them died, mostly didn't wake up - and sometimes I'd be a bit shy to approach the bed because some of them looked pretty dead - but weren't. The relief when they weren't was pretty big .........
The nurses in the men's ward were all male and down in the womens wards they were female - except they were often short staffed down there and I always got the short straw and ended being sent down and helping out.
Was like walking into a chicken factory when you went through the door into the ward - old women never ever stop talking. And they never liked the biscuit they got given - and they'd shit the bed ten minutes after they shit it the time before so they could get attention. Cleaning up an old woman was no joy, I'd get groped and the nurses found it hilarious - then I'd have to change uniform as I been groped with a shitty hand.
The 'old women' liked me down there - I was the only male in the place.
I've never forgotten that job - I got to love those old blokes and sometimes I'd be there when they pumped them out before they got taken away - it was a chance to say goodbye and the ward nurses would pop in and touch them before going back to work.
Those nurses were something else too - I never heard a harsh word nor saw harsh treatment - they absolutely cared for those blokes - and I've never forgotten that.

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