Takeing people hunting from the forum

[Tahr]

Thanks moa hunter and tahr for your insight on autism so you two have a degree in psychology have written papers and books on people with autism it’s a fantastic skill set that you have to be able to modify behaviour of autistic people I take it you will be off on a world tour to teach other people world wide to help people with autism because you guys have cracked it there is going to be so many people that can’t wait because no one else in the world really knows how to deal with artistic people

Firstly, yes, I do have allied post graduate quals to what you suggest. And do write and teach as you suggest.

Secondly, ordinary advice such as what I offered was for ordinary and near ordinary people. Not for people with an un - diagnosed or diagnosed debilitating illness. They mostly lack the self awareness to take such advice. You know this.

Many ordinary (and near ordinary people) could try a lot harder.

[Micky Duck]

well that thread turned to shit pretty fast.......


wise old saying..
beware the toes you stand on today, might be attached to the foot, thats attached to the leg, thats attached to the arse, you are going to have to kiss someday to get what you need.

[sometimes1]

Point taken not sure what advice I was given I guess been on the autistic spectrum with a very near life ending head injury when I was a boy has made me very slow on the uptake one things for sure I will never be a arse kisser and I never ask for help never have never will

[Moa Hunter]

Point taken not sure what advice I was given I guess been on the autistic spectrum with a very near life ending head injury when I was a boy has made me very slow on the uptake one things for sure I will never be a arse kisser and I never ask for help never have never will

You are not stupid you are smart and articulate so don't use autism as an excuse for poor manners, it doesn't wash. As you like, plain honest talk.
Nearly everyone has some problem or life changing event along the way to deal with. Your autism is small fry compared to the problems some have to surmount.
If you 'never ask for help never have never will' then you will never have friends. I expect my friends to ask me for help because I know that they will be there to help me.
The link here is to one of the most oft quoted and respected treatise's on friendship there is https://www.shmoop.com/little-prince/fox.html