Hang on, you said you can't see where it comes from but then gave a perfect example?
Anybody got a wife out there who criticises her own body while your daughters are in earshot?
Ever read a children's book where the hero was female and got to that position without a prince or dad or brother? (Good for you if you found one, now finds second. I bet you can't)
I'm not saying it's a man's fault...so don't get your heckles up. Just know that even though you're daddy (or husband, or best friend) sometimes only having one person who says "you can do it!" Is still hard to believe when it seems like there are a hundred other people out there saying that you can't.
I mean subliminally, I've never met another female engineer. If you're down on yourself perhaps one might assume that's because "females can't do it".
I don't know your kid but I guess what I'm trying to say is that you have never been a teenage girl.. you may find it difficult to understand the strange way her mind operates
especially to do with self doubt, confidence, self hate, depression etc
Women are complex. I sure as hell don't understand them.
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