Originally Posted by
Tussock
I have a huge dog, and yesterday it ran up to a kid, mistaking it for a kid it knew (its well socialised). It recognised its mistake early and turned to come back, but there was a great deal of mutual interest between the little boy and my puppy from about 5m. Puppy was friendly and anyone with half a clue could see it, including the little boy. Little boy was not neurotic and thought he might have found himself something worth investigating.
Then his mother came, wrapped her arms around him with eyes wide with terror, started muttering in his ear and the kids eyes went wide with terror, my dog went "these people are weird". This all happened pretty quick and he came the moment he was called. So a well behaved dog met a well behaved kid, everything went fine, then a mentally unstable woman came and filled the kids head with fear. When he next meets an un-socialised dog, that fear might get him bit. If he stood square and calm like he did instinctively, he would be fine.
Everyone gave me a filthy look, as if my dog not getting in any ones face and returning when called made me a criminal.
Why is everyone absolutely petrified of everything? Why can't a New Zealander talk about earthquakes without having a panic attack. Or meet a horse on a track without calling the council. Why can't New Zealanders read dogs any more? I stay out of the city and a dogs a dog. I don't have to worry about the people, because they are not fools. Its just a dog, your a human. Its not on your level.
When you live alone in a place where you don't speak the language and you don't know the culture, then you have to fall back on what you have in common as humans to feel out situations. If you want to know if the people you are with a going to rob you or help you, you have to feel them out. You have to be sensitive to the vibe in a room. Works with dogs too. Any farmer does it when he wants to know the state of his animals. You know if they are fretting. If you are facing a couple of officials and they are about to do you, they can't hide it. They can try, but they will give themselves away. You can feel if they are genuine, or if there is fear or worse behind there eyes.
So what if you take that sensitivity to peoples feelings or intent, and apply it to our own society? What is in people eyes? What do they project.
Fear mostly. Your average middle class suburbanite reeks of it. Anxious, hand ringing balls of terror. You can see their minds working, in the same way you can see the mind of someone trying to run you working. Its just fear. Fear of what the person thinks of you. Fear of the unknown.
I was a scout. I was taught by a policeman, a cook, a foundry worker, a mechanic and an electrician. Not one of them was a pervert. They were excellent leaders and competent people willing to pass on their skills to children. I was discussing this with a mate of mine who was there with me and still works in the outdoors. We would like to in turn pass on our skills. Except, as he said, as a man, he does not even go near schools or playgroups. If we were both honest, we are petrified of neurotic disturbing people who would accuse us of being perverts. So our skills will not be passed on.
So which is the greater sickness? A few perverts which a decent organisational structure can exclude, or a society so riddled with fear that everyone sees everyone else as a pervert? The latter disturbs me far more. These people are sick.
Where is all this fear of absolutely everything coming from? I have been given advice by these people and it seems to go along the lines of "tick up everything, hide inside your house".
I think these people are all terrified of their own shadows and riddled with anxiety because they can't do anything for themselves. They live sanitised lives in ever contracting comfort zones. Its the anxiety that is the problem. We need to stop catering to it. Every time someone is too weak to function, we have to modify society to suit them. We just lower ourselves to the lowest common denominator.
If one person is to scared to cross a river in our society, we all have to pay for a bridge. Then we all have to use the bridge. Then no one knows how to accomplish a river crossing safely any more. Then the bridge gets washed away and everyone is stuffed.
In traditional society, you did not cater to the weakest people. You built your society for people who could cope with life, and if someone could not cope you helped them. You did not just stop doing something because someone suffered from anxiety. Its a disease that spreads. If I run a bush camp, and I have even one person who thinks like that author, I have to deal with it then and there, or by morning I have a camp full. Then things just go to pieces. Shackleton dealt with that issue by making his anxious crew member the cook. He gave the weakest most fearful member of his party the hardest job (outdoor blubber cook) and he came right. He needed a challenge to build him up.
These people live in contracting comfort zones. That guy might have been a solid joker once and a decent outdoorsmen, but now the world is too much for him. The common sense answer DOC gave is 100% something he could have worked out for himself (as others noted). ,So he is clearly not thinking straight. Its a symptom of anxiety. They get all worked up, and the story in their head becomes real to them. Then they go on attack. They are always the aggressor attacking phantoms. There is a reason animals drive off anxious fearful animals. Come back when you can think straight.
Run away fear is no good. If we were still in tribes we would not tolerate these people. They would get us all killed. You can't be jumping at your own shadow when dangers are real. That is reserved for soft, spoilt people. You won't see a bush African fret (unless superstition is involved). Fretting and being hysterical and over dramatic is a first world luxury. If you can't keep yourself together, a predator (human or animal) will sense it.
These fools are going to get us all killed. We can't have an entire country filled with neurotic hand ringing pirmadonnas. Its not a functional survival strategy. What happens if we hit hard times?
I'm expected to take these people into the bush. Its just a joke now. They want their six figure salary and status and position etc etc but they sure as hell don't want to earn it. The tents not big enough, there is no shower, where do I plug my hair drier in.
We need to really think hard if we want to let people terrified of their own shadow dictate terms for us. We are heavily outnumbered by the neurotic city people who need the world made safe for them. I am getting very, very sick of it.
I listened yesterday to all of this outdoor terror at a meeting I attended. I sat and listened to people talk about the danger of people getting lost because they missed the signs.
I don't really know how to explain this to you all (them). If you want to make everything earthy and bush wholesome and one with nature, by all means paint everything green. But, if you expect people to see a green sign in the bush, you are a f*cking idiot. The forest service painted things orange for what should be obvious reasons.
We need two separate outdoors areas. One that is not the outdoors for people who can't cope with that, and one for people who still have a spine (us). I don't really want to be in the same space as these people.
At said meeting, hunters were blamed for everything. Anyone driving a 4x4 irresponsibly was a hunter. Personally, I think their tracks are irresponsible. Big destructive slip causing motorways covered in gravel. Whats wrong with a properly slashed cheap to maintain cullers track that is moulded into the terrain? That is a bush experience. I won't walk on the stinking motorways. It looks like a big ugly scar on the landscape to me, and reminds me a I live in a country of people too feeble to avoid a tree root.
We are not tramper shooting, hut wrecking child molesting, animal torturing monster. I'm the guy who stopped when your car broke down. I'm the guy with the 4x4 who saved you from a night out in the snow when you drove without checking the forecast. Everyone on this forum is that guy. And when there is an earthquake, that guy turns up and teaches you to camp, and are you not grateful? And when your techno-fabulous $5000 tramping kit does not navigate for you and you fall off that motorway, it will be a guy or girl in $100 worth of Stoney Creek gear with holes all through and legs like steel springs who walks all night and finds you.
Maybe the moral of the story is read the forum, not Stuff. Works for me. I want to hear what you lot have to say, as people capable of functioning in the world at large. Not a mentally unstable author.
Don't buy into that shit. They want to make us believe we are in some way socially irresponsible. Being completely useless is socially irresponsible.
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